1. Don't make a huge deal out of it. If you're stressed out and cranky, your kids will usually pick up on it and act accordingly. Their behavior will usually be better if you are relaxed and having fun. You may have to make some compromises to keep the peace such as letting your energetic daughter's hair stay straight instead of curling it into because she won't sit still. Focus on the big picture and don't sweat the small stuff.
2. Make it fun. Let the kids have a couple “fun pictures” where they get to pick their own pose or make funny faces. You get to keep the more serious photos while they get to keep their silly photos. This way everyone wins. If you are struggling to get your kids to sit still, we will turn the photo session into a game. Simon Says usually works like a charm. If they’re smaller, let them bring their favorite stuffed animal or toy, but only break it out if we need it.
3. Be prepared. Make sure to schedule your session time around your children’s naps. If they are older and no longer nap, try to limit the day’s activities before your session. You don’t want them exhausted and grumpy. Bringing some snacks and water along is also a great idea. If you happen to be having your session outdoors you might need bug spray, sunscreen, or bandaids. Better to be over-prepared!
4. Be patient. Save your sanity by trying not to control the portrait session too much. I am the professional and I know that children often run the show. Sometimes we need to guide them and other times we need to go with their flow. Upset and annoyed parents make for children who give goofy smiles or grimaces. I promise, there is a method to the madness.
5. Have a chat. Get your children talking to both you and I about topics such as school, their best friend or sing their favorite songs. This allows them to feel more comfortable around a photographer and will also give me a chance to capture a few candid and cute expressions.
